When Ed and I first started dating, his friends were cool about it. I met them all at the same time and we had some good times together. I liked his friends, they liked me, everyone was happy.
Ed’s best friend at the time had a question, though – he asked Ed what it was like, having sex with a fat girl.
I still think about that comment sometimes, and it always stings – like there was nothing else to me, no personality or physical atttributes that could be at all interesting – I’m just a fat sack of flesh with a vagina; how’s that working out for you? Do you have to look away or do it in the dark or think of porn stars to get it up around her? I mean, she’s *fat*. Sex couldn’t possibly be good!
That friend just got engaged, and my first thought was “I wonder if she’s fat”.
I guess we don’t always grow as much as people as we’d like.
(for the record, I’m awesome in the sack)
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I miss you dearly, Kimli.
You are totally beautiful, and interesting, and funny. You’re a hot piece of ass, size 2 or 20 or anything in between.
People are just screwed up. Seems like we all need to look down on somebody for one bogus reason or another. Even me, I hate telemarketers and used car salespersons even though they’re just trying to earn a paycheck, just like me. Some days I’m embarrassed to be human.
You know, it’s just such a fallacy that men cannot and are not attracted to women who are not skinny. It may not be the fashion in this fucked-up culture in which we swim (or sink).
Think about it; some 6 foot tall mode type who is around 120 lbs, maybe (sounds pretty healthy so far). Surely she’s bony? Methinks those who enjoy the pleasures of the flesh might really appreciate the wonderful sensation of softer female flesh? And anyone who’s seen Kimli’s awesome hot cleavage is surely gonna agree with me, right?!
That guy? What a shallow jerk. Hopefully he’s grown up a little, especially if he’s getting married. Hey, buddy! How would you feel if your (possibly thin) fiancee gained a lot after baking and popping out your progeny? How would you like to be asked how it was to have sex with a fat woman. Jerk.
Did I mention that I totally agree that you’re really quite a beautiful woman. Don’t get the chance to say those kinds of things in person, but hey, it’s safer to offer behind the screen… but still true. KLW=Hottie!
I just now realized this says “petty” and not “pretty” like I automatically assumed.
If I were pretty, my weight would be moot.
Oh wait, that’s only how it works in my fantasy world – I could be as pretty as the friggin’ sun, but some people would never see past the size of my ass. Fat = ugly = worthless, remember?
You should ask his wife what it’s like to have sex with an asshole.